My communication with Randall Butisingh – Dec 1, 1912 to Dec 9, 2012 – was the “World’s Oldest Blogger”
http://www.nissaa1.blogspot.ca/2010/02/my-communication-with-randall.html
Randall's Obituary
Thursday, December 20, 2012
Monday, November 12, 2012
All people on the planet are children, except for a few. No one is grown up except those free of desire. ~ Rumi
All people on the planet are children, except for a few. No one is grown up except those free of desire. ~ Rumi
Sunday, November 4, 2012
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
What Women Love About Men - Admiration, frustration, and advice from women to men.
What Women Love About Men
Admiration, frustration, and advice from women to men.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ironshrink/201210/what-women-love-about-men
Admiration, frustration, and advice from women to men.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ironshrink/201210/what-women-love-about-men
Thursday, October 25, 2012
Real generosity is doing something nice for someone who will never find out...Frank A. Clark
Real generosity is doing something nice for someone who will never find out...Frank A. Clark
A person's value is known in his absence. If that person's absence is valueless, then his existence is unnecessary ~Rumi
A person's value is known in his absence. If that person's absence is valueless, then his existence is unnecessary ~Rumi
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
There are two kinds of people - There are two kinds of people: those who do the work, and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group; there is less competition there.- Indira Gandhi
There are two kinds of people - There are two kinds of people: those who do the work, and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group; there is less competition there.- Indira Gandhi
Thursday, October 18, 2012
Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe. ~ Saint Augustine
Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe. ~ Saint Augustine
Tuesday, October 9, 2012
Hajj: What It Has Become and What It Should Be Again
Hajj: What It Has Become and What It Should Be Again
Mecca is beginning to resemble the Moscow of the late Stalin era, if not Las Vegas, in its vulgar architectural gigantism.....http://www.huffingtonpost.com/stephen-schwartz/hajj-saudi-restrictions_b_1080387.html
Mecca is beginning to resemble the Moscow of the late Stalin era, if not Las Vegas, in its vulgar architectural gigantism.....http://www.huffingtonpost.com/stephen-schwartz/hajj-saudi-restrictions_b_1080387.html
Hajj Flow Chart
How to Perform Hajj
Hajj Glossary
HAJJ Pilgrimage –Rituals of Hajj
Note: This article presents a summarized version of the steps involved in Hajj. More details are available at the end of the article.
Hajj pilgrimage is one of the five pillars of Islam – i.e. one of the five obligatory duties of a Muslim. Allah (SWT) says in the Quran:
Hajj pilgrimage is one of the five pillars of Islam – i.e. one of the five obligatory duties of a Muslim. Allah (SWT) says in the Quran:
“And Hajj (pilgrimage to Makkah) to the House (Ka’bah ) is a duty that mankind owes to Allah, those who can afford the expenses (for one’s conveyance, provision and residence); and whoever disbelieves [i.e. denies Hajj (pilgrimage to Makkah), then he is a disbeliever of Allah], then Allah stands not in need of any of the ‘Alamin (mankind, jinn and all that exists).” (Aal-e-Imran, 3:97)The rites of Hajj were laid down by Allah (SWT) to mark historic events in the life of Prophet Ibrahim, which show his absolute and total submission to the Will of Allah......http://www.iqrasense.com/hajj/hajj-pilgrimage-rituals-of-hajj.html
God is not a Delusion
God is not a Delusion
A Muslim Doctor Presents Evidence for Belief
Authored by Dr Sheeza Ali
EXCERPT FROM CHAPTER ONE:
The inspiration
American Astronomer, Carl Sagan, describes our Earth as a "pale blue dot" in the vast emptiness of the universe. For an observer looking at Earth from outer space, from a point millions of miles away, it certainly would look like a small dot; especially when compared to a large number of other celestial bodies that make up the universe.
For us, human beings living on Earth, however, our planet is a vast expanse of land and water. We find its physical distances colossal. Even on the best of our technological crafts, we take several hours to cross the Atlantic or the Pacific Oceans. Today, these distances have been vastly reduced for us, not physically, but with the invention of the internet. The internet makes us feel as if we are all fish living in the same pond.
I was inspired to write this book after learning of something mainly from the internet - the magnitude of the contemporary world's antagonism to theism or belief in God.
Ever since we started exploring into the norms and cultures of our forefathers' lives, we have known that there were people who did not believe God exists - atheists - and also people who were unaware or unconvinced of the existence of such a being as God - agnostics. But historically, the majority of people did believe in the existence of God. Atheists and agnostics were the minority.
We know from history that non-belief existed in all cultures and countries - the stories of the non-believers have found their way into our history books ever since religious history started to be documented. Archaeological evidence shows that belief in an afterlife and also belief in a 'higher power' existed within human cultures even before history was documented. Where there were believers, it is only likely there would be non-believers too.
Although atheists have probably always existed, it was not until relatively recently that they rebranded their overt hostility to belief in God and religion. The new strain of atheism we find today, what The Wall Street Journal calls "militant atheism" has spread like a plague, crossing oceans, carrying its ubiquitous and loud propaganda.
The world is an entirely different place today compared to even the early twentieth century. But, how has this affected the beliefs we hold? How prevalent are our beliefs and philosophies and how secular are we today? If not for the internet, I would never have known that atheistic and agnostic philosophies are as prevalent as they are today.
You do not have to do serious research digging for reliable statistics on the number of atheists and agnostics in the world, nor do you need to search the issue on Google to get a feel for what I am saying. Antagonism to belief in God and hatred towards religion are common expressions unveiled in many ways in today's culture. The diatribes of sceptics - people sceptical of belief in God - can be found on seemingly benign websites such as those of newspapers, lifestyle magazines, message boards and internet blogs. The prevalence of materialistic worldviews on these websites alone would be enough to make you wonder whether there are more sceptics than believers amongst us today. Sometimes, I wonder what triggers the tirades against belief in God. Some sceptics appear as if they are waiting for an opportunity to bellow their materialistic world views. Their retort is harsh and their tone is strident even for the most trivial of comments that invoke the existence of God. ..........
For more information please contact the publisher at godisnotadelusion@gmail.com
https://www.createspace.com/3772911
A Muslim Doctor Presents Evidence for Belief
Authored by Dr Sheeza Ali
EXCERPT FROM CHAPTER ONE:
The inspiration
American Astronomer, Carl Sagan, describes our Earth as a "pale blue dot" in the vast emptiness of the universe. For an observer looking at Earth from outer space, from a point millions of miles away, it certainly would look like a small dot; especially when compared to a large number of other celestial bodies that make up the universe.
For us, human beings living on Earth, however, our planet is a vast expanse of land and water. We find its physical distances colossal. Even on the best of our technological crafts, we take several hours to cross the Atlantic or the Pacific Oceans. Today, these distances have been vastly reduced for us, not physically, but with the invention of the internet. The internet makes us feel as if we are all fish living in the same pond.
I was inspired to write this book after learning of something mainly from the internet - the magnitude of the contemporary world's antagonism to theism or belief in God.
Ever since we started exploring into the norms and cultures of our forefathers' lives, we have known that there were people who did not believe God exists - atheists - and also people who were unaware or unconvinced of the existence of such a being as God - agnostics. But historically, the majority of people did believe in the existence of God. Atheists and agnostics were the minority.
We know from history that non-belief existed in all cultures and countries - the stories of the non-believers have found their way into our history books ever since religious history started to be documented. Archaeological evidence shows that belief in an afterlife and also belief in a 'higher power' existed within human cultures even before history was documented. Where there were believers, it is only likely there would be non-believers too.
Although atheists have probably always existed, it was not until relatively recently that they rebranded their overt hostility to belief in God and religion. The new strain of atheism we find today, what The Wall Street Journal calls "militant atheism" has spread like a plague, crossing oceans, carrying its ubiquitous and loud propaganda.
The world is an entirely different place today compared to even the early twentieth century. But, how has this affected the beliefs we hold? How prevalent are our beliefs and philosophies and how secular are we today? If not for the internet, I would never have known that atheistic and agnostic philosophies are as prevalent as they are today.
You do not have to do serious research digging for reliable statistics on the number of atheists and agnostics in the world, nor do you need to search the issue on Google to get a feel for what I am saying. Antagonism to belief in God and hatred towards religion are common expressions unveiled in many ways in today's culture. The diatribes of sceptics - people sceptical of belief in God - can be found on seemingly benign websites such as those of newspapers, lifestyle magazines, message boards and internet blogs. The prevalence of materialistic worldviews on these websites alone would be enough to make you wonder whether there are more sceptics than believers amongst us today. Sometimes, I wonder what triggers the tirades against belief in God. Some sceptics appear as if they are waiting for an opportunity to bellow their materialistic world views. Their retort is harsh and their tone is strident even for the most trivial of comments that invoke the existence of God. ..........
For more information please contact the publisher at godisnotadelusion@gmail.com
https://www.createspace.com/3772911
Monday, October 8, 2012
Prophet Muhammad, the Rasulullah (Salallahu Alaiyhi Wasalam), placed the Qur'an in the hands of his followers and said, In order to understand this, go even unto China to learn divine knowledge ('ilm). Within one word in the Qur'an, there are thousands of meanings. Don't hold onto to just one meaning. Look within and there will be another meaning. Within that is another meaning, and within that is still another. As you uncover meaning after meaning, you will see Allah at the very end. When you go beyond all the messengers (rasuls) and look within, you will find Allah. The angels are also there. Go beyond them and look, go beyond everything and look, and then you will see heaven. Go beyond heaven, and Allah is there. Do not pray for heaven. Go beyond and look. Allah will be there ~ M. R. Bawa Muhaiyaddeen
Prophet Muhammad, the Rasulullah (Salallahu Alaiyhi Wasalam), placed the Qur'an in the hands of his followers and said, In order to understand this, go even unto China to learn divine knowledge ('ilm). Within one word in the Qur'an, there are thousands of meanings. Don't hold onto to just one meaning. Look within and there will be another meaning. Within that is another meaning, and within that is still another. As you uncover meaning after meaning, you will see Allah at the very end. When you go beyond all the messengers (rasuls) and look within, you will find Allah. The angels are also there. Go beyond them and look, go beyond everything and look, and then you will see heaven. Go beyond heaven, and Allah is there. Do not pray for heaven. Go beyond and look. Allah will be there ~ M. R. Bawa Muhaiyaddeen
Sunday, October 7, 2012
A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' come together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.~ Dave Meure
A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' come together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.~ Dave Meure
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they're busy doing things they think are important. This is because they're chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning....Morrie Schwartz
So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they're busy doing things they think are important. This is because they're chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning....Morrie Schwartz
Friday, September 21, 2012
Live with integrity: A father’s power, wealth, political beliefs and religious opinions mean little to his children. Your children will remember your integrity. They will remember how honest you were, that you never cheated anyone
Live with integrity: A father’s power, wealth, political beliefs and religious opinions mean little to his children. Your children will remember your integrity. They will remember how honest you were, that you never cheated anyone.
A Christian Who Loves a Muslim
"Ali has been vastly more than an example of a kid gone straight who lived the American dream. He has been as a political activist, humanitarian, sage and, especially as a Muslim, a guide for this Christian -- and I suspect for many more. Equally important, at a time when Americans seem to be addicted to hoarding weapons (as never before), Ali reminds us that the ring is a better place than the streets and boxing gloves are better than guns for working out our anger and our fears. The violence that once again knocks at the doors of our embassies sickens me just as much as hatred against Muslims. Maybe those of us who are Christian and American could be helpful at this moment by remembering Muhammad Ali and saying to our near and distant neighbors: Assalamu alaikum -- Peace be with you."...Willie James Jennings.Associate Professor, Duke Divinity School.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/willie-james-jennings/a-christian-who-loves-a-muslim_b_1898630.html?utm_hp_ref=religion#es_share_ended
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/willie-james-jennings/a-christian-who-loves-a-muslim_b_1898630.html?utm_hp_ref=religion#es_share_ended
Thursday, September 20, 2012
Relationships is not about finding the right person, it is about being the right person
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Relationships is not about finding the right person, it is about being the right person...
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Happiness
If you observe a really happy man you will find him building a boat, writing a symphony, educating his son, growing double dahlias in his garden. He will not be searching for happiness as if it were a collar button that has rolled under the radiator. ~ W. Beran Wolfe
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
Be in this world as though you were a stranger or a traveler/wayfarer.
Narrated by Ibn ‘Umar, radiyallahu ‘anhuma, who said: The Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:
Be in this world as though you were a stranger or a traveler/wayfarer.
When evening comes, do not expect (to live till) morning, and when morning comes, do not expect (to live till) evening. Take from your health (a preparation) for your illness, and from your life for your death.[Al-Bukhari]
Be in this world as though you were a stranger or a traveler/wayfarer.
When evening comes, do not expect (to live till) morning, and when morning comes, do not expect (to live till) evening. Take from your health (a preparation) for your illness, and from your life for your death.[Al-Bukhari]
Saturday, September 8, 2012
Do not become proud of your position. Do not beomce harsh towards those weaker than yourself
Finally Gabriel gave Muhammad(Salallahu Alaiyhi Wasalam) these instructions: Do not become proud of your position. Do not beomce harsh towards those weaker than yourself. And always speak of God's kindness to you. And Prophet Muhammad (Salallahu Alaiyhi Wasalam) obeyed these instructions diligently throughout his life.-Ibn Isaq, The Life of Muhammad
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Full Episode: Oprah and Llewellyn Vaughan-Lee on Sufism and the Wisdom of the Heart
Full Episode: Oprah and Llewellyn Vaughan-Lee on Sufism and the Wisdom of the Heart
Read more: http://www.oprah.com/own-super-soul-sunday/Full-Episode-Oprah-and-Llewellyn-Vaughan-Lee-Video#ixzz25ehvpVNC
Read more: http://www.oprah.com/own-super-soul-sunday/Full-Episode-Oprah-and-Llewellyn-Vaughan-Lee-Video#ixzz25ehvpVNC
Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Small Mosques
Mosque in small Nepali Town
Bus ride from Chitwan to Pokhara, Nepal ... Mosque
http://www.flickr.com/photos/squidchip/3046154947/in/gallery-ayra_j3-72157622499182752/
Abiquiu, N.M.
This small mosque near the mountains was built by Benyamin van Hattum.
http://moeflich.wordpress.com/2010/11/30/30-mosques-in-30-days-an-american-trip/
The first part of anger is madness and the second is regret
The first part of anger is madness and the second is regret. Passion and blindness are inseparable mates. Beware of anger, for it ends in the humiliation of apology. Anger leads to all kinds of evil. When you are angry be silent. It is not a trait of noble character to be hasty either in anger or in revenge. The anger of a fool reveals itself in what he says, and the anger of a wise man in what he does. Quarrelsomeness is a contemptible habit. Call not yourself a man so long as you are angry....Arabian Wisdom, by John Wortabet, [1913], at sacred-texts.com
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Monday, August 27, 2012
All things in balance
He raised up the sky, and set all things in balance; he commanded you not to upset that balance, but to respect it. He laid out the earth for all creatures; and he planted upon it trees that bear blossom and fruit, husks that carry grain, and herbs that emit a fragrance. Which of the Lord's blessing would you deny? He created human beings from dry clay, as a potter creates pots; and he created spirites from the flames of fire. Which of the Lord's blessings would you deny?..-Quran,Ar-Rahman, Surah 55:7-16
Saturday, August 25, 2012
Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Live amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep over you and if you are alive they crave for your company ~ Hazrat Ali
Live amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep over you and if you are alive they crave for your company ~ Hazrat Ali
Monday, August 20, 2012
Love is not all you need, nor all your wife or husband needs, and certainly not all your children need. We all need respect, especially from those who are closest and most intimately connected with us.
Love is not all you need, nor all your wife or husband needs, and certainly not all your children need. We all need respect, especially from those who are closest and most intimately connected with us....
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/freedom-learn/201208/in-relationships-respect-may-be-even-more-crucial-love
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/freedom-learn/201208/in-relationships-respect-may-be-even-more-crucial-love
How excellent is he who takes no thought of his own interest so that his patience is for God's sake not for the saving of himself from Hell
How excellent is he who takes no thought of his own interest so that his patience is for God's sake not for the saving of himself from Hell; and his asceticism is for God's sake, not for the purpose of bringing himself into Paradise. This is the mark of true sincerity.~ Hasan al-Basri
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
I struggled hard but did not reap the fruits of my labors. Then I gazed into myself and found that my ego and my heart were unified
I struggled hard but did not reap the fruits of my labors. Then I gazed into myself and found that my ego and my heart were unified. When the ego and the heart are united, a portion of all that shines upon the heart is seized by the self. Thus I came to know the cause of my dilemma, that the light illuminating my heart was being seized by my ego.-Al-Nuri, in Islamic Sufism
Saturday, August 11, 2012
When you purify your hearts just as you purify your raiment, union with God will follow
When you purify your hearts just as you purify your raiment, union with God will follow. You cannot become a Sufi by merely wearing coarse woolen shirts and following strict ritual, pretending to be pious while inside your hearts you bear malice and avarice. A real Sufi has attained a state of perfection on the inside. If you sincerely seek union with God, then seek Him inside your hearts and leave the world alone.-Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jillani, Fayuz E Yazdani
Friday, August 3, 2012
The most blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses...[Bayhaqi]
Prophet Muhammad (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: �The most blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses...[Bayhaqi]
Monday, July 16, 2012
Maturity
Maturity is the ability to do a job whether or not you are supervised, to carry money without spending it, and to bear an injustice without wanting to get even. -Ann Landers
Monday, June 11, 2012
It is God who has created the stars for you
It is God who has created the stars for you, so that they may guide you in the darkness, both on land and at sea. We have made plain our revelations to people of wisdom.-Qur'an, Al-An'am, Surah 6:97
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Small Things
To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable, and wealthy, not, rich; to listen to stars and birds, babes and sages, with open heart; to study hard; to think quietly, act frankly, talk gently, await occasions, hurry never; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious, grow up through the common--this is my symphony."
-- William Henry Channing (1810-1884), American Unitarian clergyman, writer and philosopher
-- William Henry Channing (1810-1884), American Unitarian clergyman, writer and philosopher
Friday, May 18, 2012
“How would your life be different if…
“How would your life be different if…You approached all relationships with authenticity and honesty? Let today be the day…You dedicate yourself to building relationships on the solid foundation of truth and authenticity.”
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Aging Should make us better, not bitter
Jeanne Beker: What I’ve learned in 60 years
http://www.thestar.com/living/fashion/article/1147803--jeanne-beker-what-i-ve-learned-in-60-years
I’ve learned that passion is a necessity, not a bonus.
I’ve learned the only constant in life is change; we must try not to resist it.
I’ve learned that humility is a virtue; that ego often gets in the way of progress, and that compromise is not a dirty word.
I’ve learned that while we can’t always tell the truth, we must try never to lie. Especially about our age.
I’ve learned that generosity is rewarded, even if it’s just with good feelings.
I’ve learned that we sometimes have to sink to the depths of misery before we can soar. Suffering is a part of life. It inevitably makes us stronger.
I’ve learned that inner beauty is the only kind that really counts. But good lighting helps.
I’ve learned that great style has little to do with what you wear. It’s how you wear it and who you are. Confidence is the best fashion accessory.
I’ve learned never to wish to be in someone else’s shoes — you never really know where they’ve come from or where they’re going.
I’ve learned that life’s biggest joys have little to do with wealth and power; that great art often comes out of great turmoil; and that my friends are precious jewels who teach me, inspire me and look out for me. I try to do the same for them.
I’ve learned that pets are a blessing, and provide us with profound unconditional love. I learn so much from my pets.
I’ve learned that compassion is what brings us together.
I’ve learned to try to keep an open mind, and more importantly, an open heart.
I’ve learned that love is not always absolute: It can be as imperfect as the people we fall for.
I’ve learned that chipped nail polish is a dead giveaway that you’re not taking enough time for yourself.
I’ve learned that worrying is a waste of time.
I’ve learned that we’re all ultimately alone, though I don’t particularly like the notion.
I’ve learned that a broken heart can heal, but the scars will always be there to remind you. We never really get over loss. We just learn to live with it.
I’ve learned that even though I’ve been cheated, I never want to lose trust in people. Still, I’d rather not count on anything — or anyone — but myself.
I’ve learned that sharing our innermost feelings and personal experiences is the greatest gift we can give one another; that laughter is the best medicine; and that while you can never go wrong if you dress in black, colour is more likely to lift your spirits.
I’ve learned that we should try not to be so hard on ourselves; that we have to take risks in order to achieve greatness, and that no one comes to rescue you if you don’t try to rescue yourself.
I’ve learned that jealousy is venomous; that hate is a waste of energy and passion, and that working out is as important for your mind as your body.
I’ve learned that losing weight and keeping it off is all about mind over matter.
I’ve learned that we must always try to do our best — and that most of us usually do.
I’ve learned that God never gives us more than we can handle; that no one escapes from life unscathed, and that if you leap, the net will appear.
I’ve learned that aging should make us better, not bitter.
I’ve learned that Botox can help.
I’ve learned that if we can’t change our situation, we can always change our perspective; that the older we grow, the more ourselves we become; and that if you want something to happen, you have to try making it happen yourself.
I’ve learned that life isn’t usually black and white. Most often, it’s an interesting shade of grey.
I’ve learned that if it feels good, wear it.
I’ve learned the greatest lesson we can teach our children is kindness, and the greatest lesson our children can teach us is the importance of encouraging their dreams.
I’ve learned that the squeaky wheel gets the grease; that if you don’t ask, you don’t get; and that you have to be careful what you ask for, because it may not be what you really want.
I’ve learned to stand up for my rights.
I’ve learned to try not to hold a grudge, or take myself too seriously, or judge people too quickly.
I’ve learned to wear my heart on my sleeve, and speak my mind whenever possible. Life’s too short for guessing games.
I’ve learned that we must tell those we love and appreciate how much we love and appreciate them, and that we can only hope to get out of life what we ultimately put into it.
I’ve learned that true bliss in life is all in the balance — though trying to strike it, and then maintain it, is perhaps the greatest struggle of all.
I’ve learned that just when I’m about to give up, miracles happen.
So I’ve learned to have faith. Still, we often forget what we know. Because, I’ve learned, we’re only human, after all.
Jeanne Beker is a contributing editor to the Star and host of Fashion Television. Email her at jeanne@ctv.ca, follow her on Twitter (@jeanne_beker) and watch her on CTV, E! and FashionTelevisionChannel.
http://www.thestar.com/living/fashion/article/1147803--jeanne-beker-what-i-ve-learned-in-60-years
I’ve learned that passion is a necessity, not a bonus.
I’ve learned the only constant in life is change; we must try not to resist it.
I’ve learned that humility is a virtue; that ego often gets in the way of progress, and that compromise is not a dirty word.
I’ve learned that while we can’t always tell the truth, we must try never to lie. Especially about our age.
I’ve learned that generosity is rewarded, even if it’s just with good feelings.
I’ve learned that we sometimes have to sink to the depths of misery before we can soar. Suffering is a part of life. It inevitably makes us stronger.
I’ve learned that inner beauty is the only kind that really counts. But good lighting helps.
I’ve learned that great style has little to do with what you wear. It’s how you wear it and who you are. Confidence is the best fashion accessory.
I’ve learned never to wish to be in someone else’s shoes — you never really know where they’ve come from or where they’re going.
I’ve learned that life’s biggest joys have little to do with wealth and power; that great art often comes out of great turmoil; and that my friends are precious jewels who teach me, inspire me and look out for me. I try to do the same for them.
I’ve learned that pets are a blessing, and provide us with profound unconditional love. I learn so much from my pets.
I’ve learned that compassion is what brings us together.
I’ve learned to try to keep an open mind, and more importantly, an open heart.
I’ve learned that love is not always absolute: It can be as imperfect as the people we fall for.
I’ve learned that chipped nail polish is a dead giveaway that you’re not taking enough time for yourself.
I’ve learned that worrying is a waste of time.
I’ve learned that we’re all ultimately alone, though I don’t particularly like the notion.
I’ve learned that a broken heart can heal, but the scars will always be there to remind you. We never really get over loss. We just learn to live with it.
I’ve learned that even though I’ve been cheated, I never want to lose trust in people. Still, I’d rather not count on anything — or anyone — but myself.
I’ve learned that sharing our innermost feelings and personal experiences is the greatest gift we can give one another; that laughter is the best medicine; and that while you can never go wrong if you dress in black, colour is more likely to lift your spirits.
I’ve learned that we should try not to be so hard on ourselves; that we have to take risks in order to achieve greatness, and that no one comes to rescue you if you don’t try to rescue yourself.
I’ve learned that jealousy is venomous; that hate is a waste of energy and passion, and that working out is as important for your mind as your body.
I’ve learned that losing weight and keeping it off is all about mind over matter.
I’ve learned that we must always try to do our best — and that most of us usually do.
I’ve learned that God never gives us more than we can handle; that no one escapes from life unscathed, and that if you leap, the net will appear.
I’ve learned that aging should make us better, not bitter.
I’ve learned that Botox can help.
I’ve learned that if we can’t change our situation, we can always change our perspective; that the older we grow, the more ourselves we become; and that if you want something to happen, you have to try making it happen yourself.
I’ve learned that life isn’t usually black and white. Most often, it’s an interesting shade of grey.
I’ve learned that if it feels good, wear it.
I’ve learned the greatest lesson we can teach our children is kindness, and the greatest lesson our children can teach us is the importance of encouraging their dreams.
I’ve learned that the squeaky wheel gets the grease; that if you don’t ask, you don’t get; and that you have to be careful what you ask for, because it may not be what you really want.
I’ve learned to stand up for my rights.
I’ve learned to try not to hold a grudge, or take myself too seriously, or judge people too quickly.
I’ve learned to wear my heart on my sleeve, and speak my mind whenever possible. Life’s too short for guessing games.
I’ve learned that we must tell those we love and appreciate how much we love and appreciate them, and that we can only hope to get out of life what we ultimately put into it.
I’ve learned that true bliss in life is all in the balance — though trying to strike it, and then maintain it, is perhaps the greatest struggle of all.
I’ve learned that just when I’m about to give up, miracles happen.
So I’ve learned to have faith. Still, we often forget what we know. Because, I’ve learned, we’re only human, after all.
Jeanne Beker is a contributing editor to the Star and host of Fashion Television. Email her at jeanne@ctv.ca, follow her on Twitter (@jeanne_beker) and watch her on CTV, E! and FashionTelevisionChannel.
Saturday, March 10, 2012
" I'll see it when I believe it"
Some people say " I'll believe it when I see it" but we should say " I'll see it when I believe it"
Friday, March 9, 2012
Everyday, think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to be alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it.... ~ Dalai Lama
Everyday, think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to be alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others; to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings. I am going to have kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry or think badly about others. I am going to benefit others as much as I can ~ Dalai Lama
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Iman - Quote
Before we try to destroy someone else, we should first pass judgment on ourselves. Before finding fault with others, we must first pass judgment upon ourselves. Before we backbite others, we must first pass judgment upon our selves. Before we lie about others, we must first judge ourselves. Before we hurt the heart of another, we must first pass judgment on ourselves. Like that, we have to pass judgment on our thoughts and on all actions done by our eyes, ears, nose, hands, and mouth. The guilty ones are within our own body and mind. These are our qualities which exist in our actions. All these qualities exist within us, do they not? So we have to pass judgment on them. That is the state of Iman-Islam. That is what is called Islam. To first see the fault in yourself and then to pass judgment and correct yourself is true justice. Those who perform that justice are in the religion of truth. They are the leaders of the religion of truth. They are in the state of Iman-Islam. They are the true believers.~ M. R. Bawa Muhaiyaddeen
Monday, February 13, 2012
The science behind Adele's emotional music.
Researchers examine how the hit 'Someone Like You' evokes an emotional response that keeps us coming back for more....
When we listen to music, we experience an intense emotional arousal that’s so pleasurable that it’s being reinforced,” professor Valorie Salimpoor told the San Francisco Classical Voice. “We always knew that emotion and reward centers of the brain were involved in music. This is the first evidence that dopamine is released when we listen to music. There are actual physiological changes that happen in your brain in the motivation and reward circuits that keep you coming back to music. It suggests that music is mildly addictive.”.....
When we listen to music, we experience an intense emotional arousal that’s so pleasurable that it’s being reinforced,” professor Valorie Salimpoor told the San Francisco Classical Voice. “We always knew that emotion and reward centers of the brain were involved in music. This is the first evidence that dopamine is released when we listen to music. There are actual physiological changes that happen in your brain in the motivation and reward circuits that keep you coming back to music. It suggests that music is mildly addictive.”
http://www.mnn.com/lifestyle/arts-culture/blogs/the-science-behind-adeles-emotional-music
Why does Adele's 'Someone Like You' make everyone cry? Science has found the formula
Adele is not trashy or provocative. She dresses modest and people still like her.
When we listen to music, we experience an intense emotional arousal that’s so pleasurable that it’s being reinforced,” professor Valorie Salimpoor told the San Francisco Classical Voice. “We always knew that emotion and reward centers of the brain were involved in music. This is the first evidence that dopamine is released when we listen to music. There are actual physiological changes that happen in your brain in the motivation and reward circuits that keep you coming back to music. It suggests that music is mildly addictive.”.....
When we listen to music, we experience an intense emotional arousal that’s so pleasurable that it’s being reinforced,” professor Valorie Salimpoor told the San Francisco Classical Voice. “We always knew that emotion and reward centers of the brain were involved in music. This is the first evidence that dopamine is released when we listen to music. There are actual physiological changes that happen in your brain in the motivation and reward circuits that keep you coming back to music. It suggests that music is mildly addictive.”
http://www.mnn.com/lifestyle/arts-culture/blogs/the-science-behind-adeles-emotional-music
Why does Adele's 'Someone Like You' make everyone cry? Science has found the formula
Adele is not trashy or provocative. She dresses modest and people still like her.
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Buy a couple of extra windshield ice scrapers to give to unprepared motorists. #actofkindness
- Buy a couple of extra windshield ice scrapers to give to unprepared motorists.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
#Qasidah #Burdah
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAgUYuzixIo
by: Muhammad Salim
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-78oMM7yjA
Mesut Kurtis - Burdah
مسعود كرتس - البردة
http://gtamuslim.webs.com/nissaa/BurdahMain.pdf
Chapter 3 [verses 11- 18 are well known- always being recited, sometimes in jum’ah, also audio in naats, ]
http://gtamuslim.webs.com/nissaa/BurdahMain1.pdf
http://www.deenislam.co.uk/burdah/burdah.htm
by: Muhammad Salim
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-78oMM7yjA
Mesut Kurtis - Burdah
مسعود كرتس - البردة
http://gtamuslim.webs.com/nissaa/BurdahMain.pdf
Chapter 3 [verses 11- 18 are well known- always being recited, sometimes in jum’ah, also audio in naats, ]
http://gtamuslim.webs.com/nissaa/BurdahMain1.pdf
http://www.deenislam.co.uk/burdah/burdah.htm
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