The Spiteful ex-wife

Why do courts insist we pay when we dads who love and miss our kids have no rights that allow us to say, “I’ll pay when I have access?” There’s been no contact for two years......
http://www.thestar.com/living/article/1082814--ellie-s-advice-don-t-confuse-your-requirement-to-pay-child-support-with-your-right-to-access